In my experience, love and sex are two separate things, and obviously often go hand in hand. I have a few more links for you to look at, but I wanted to close with a thought that popped out at me as I was rereading this answer to you. So, when we start to explore our bodies, we don't know what to expect to feel. Think about your last relationship, or your last casual affair — even your last one-night stand. There is a distortion that happens in you when your body and spirit disagree. Should I snitch on my friend? It's so important to communicate openly and honestly with sexual partners.
Viewing 9 posts - 1 through 9 of 9 total. I think you'll start to notice that these thoughts are normal to being a human and are not bad. So my advice in a nutshell. Biologically and psychologically speaking, masturbation is as right and normal as sneezing, coughing, laughing, eating, and yawning. I once was listening to a sex therapist, and she said something that stuck with me. I'm 23, married, enjoy sex and not in the least bit religious. Look up the health benefits of masterbating — there's been research done as to how it's beneficial for health.
In an Emergency On-campus Resources. So when those thoughts comes up I automatically think about them while I am masturbating. For many people, societal or family messages about masturbation being "wrong" or "dirty" can stick in our consciousness even when we "logically" no longer believe such declarations. And you shouldn't feel like you're unclean because you masterbate.
Morality of masturbation
Description: I am afraid that if I go to a temple with my contaminated shoes or a bag or my jacket or something I'll make that place dirty. The thoughts which trigger from physical pleasure might be all over the place. And they are yours and only yours. Thank you in advance for anyone who could show me the truth and any advice to ease my pain and guilt.